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How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

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What could you do to get back with your ex girlfriend?

Now, that’s a good question! Unfortunately the answer is not that simple. Guys usually think there is a one or two sentence answer to this question. But there really isn’t! Like I have said my previous article Dedication and Patience – The Key to Success there is no “magic formula” that will bring your ex girlfriend back to you in one day.

The act of getting your ex girlfriend back is a complete process in which you will build your girlfriends trust in you from a scratch. Do you need help getting back ex girlfriend? Although there isn’t a magic formula, fortunately there is a guide which describes this process. Believe me, I know what you are thinking but PLEASE do not close this page! I thought just the same when I first heard about the “get back ex girlfriend” guide. But now, I am forever grateful that I turned off my internal “scam-detector” and actually gave it a try because without it I would have never gotten my ex girlfriend back!

The guide was written by Matt Huston who is a person I will respect and remember until the end of my life because he saved my relationship with the love of my life. Wwithout the information in his guide I honestly do not think I would have been able to get back with my ex girlfriend.

It costs $47 which is a laughable price (at least for me) if it gives me a chance to get my ex girlfriend back. Even if it cost $500 and my chances were 1/100 I would still buy it! But it costs $47 and the success rate is 83.6% (according to Matt Huston who has my full trust).

Of course, I cannot force you to buy the guide. I know some of you don’t believe me (I know how skeptical I was myself!) but as a last argument let me say that there is a 60-day 100% money back guarantee. So what have you got to lose?

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It’s only up to you to decide if your ex girlfriend is worth $47 to you!

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Getting Back ex Girlfriend – 5 Relationship Rules You Have to Break

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There are certain rules you have to follow in a relationship. But when getting back ex girlfriend you have to break some of these rules if you ever want to succeed!

Here are 5 Rules you have to BREAK:

1. Pay LESS attention to your ex girlfriend:

In a relationship it is important that you both listen to each other and share all your fears and problems. If you don’t pay enough attention to your girlfriend she will break up with you sooner or later. Maybe this was even the cause of your break up.  But when getting back ex girlfriend, paradoxically, less attention is better. The reason for this is because after the break up she needs space and time to think everything through, without you influencing her. Don’t get me wrong though, I am not telling you to start ignoring her completely! This would be just as bad as contacting her too much. Take the golden, middle route.

2. Do not get her ANY gifts:

In a relationship it’s almost necessary to give each other gifts from time to time. It shows your girlfriend you truly care for her and that she means a lot to you. They are also often used as an apology if you mess up something. But this strategy does not work once you break up! It will seem to your ex girlfriend that you are simply trying to “buy” her heart back and that you think that giving her a present will make her run back to you and everything will be OK again.

3. Do NOT spy on her:

In a healthy relationship you should have an idea where your girlfriend is and who she spends time with. Of course, it should not be overdone because she will think that you do not trust her and give her enough freedom. But when getting back ex girlfriend you have to break this rule too. She is a single now and therefore has no “obligation” to report to you what she is doing. Asking her about these things will make her feel like you are trying to monitor her as if you were her father. This will of course only annoy her.

4. Do NOT try to stop her from dating someone else

This is probably the hardest rule you have to break. Of course, you don’t want this to happen, that’s why you have to start taking action fast before your ex girlfriends finds a new guy. But in case it happens do not fight with your ex about it! As mentioned in rule 3, she is a single now and can do whatever she wants. Trying to pursue her to break up with her new will have an exact opposite effect. She will not listen to you to show you that she is independent now and that she can live without you. It might be hard to watch your ex girlfriend with another guy but there is not much you can do. That’s why you have to act quickly before it happens!

5. Do NOT become her best friend after the break up

Girls usually want to keep a strong friendship with their ex boyfriends after a break up. She will tell you that you still mean much to her but she only wants friendship from now on. Don’t agree to this. Don’t be mean and rude but keep distance. When you become best friends instead of partners you will still be around for her so she won’t feel any pain of losing you. Besides you will have to listen to her talking about new guys to you which can be extremely painful. Keep your distance after the break up and show her that everything won’t be great as if nothing happened.

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When Can a Relationship be Revived?

healing_heartBelieve it or not but in more than 90% of cases relationships can be revived.

There is one very simple way to tell if your relationship can be revived.

Ask yourself: Were you BOTH happy together at one point, even if it was a short period of time?

If you had a working relationship even for just a short period of time you can almost definitely get your ex girlfriend back.

Think of it, if you were happy together it means 2 things:

1. She definitely had and probably still has some feelings you.
2. Your ex girlfriend misses those happy times just as much as you!

If you never had a working relationship and your ex girlfriend never really loved you as much as you loved her, i am very sorry but it means you two are incompatible. You will just have to accept the fact that she doesn’t feel the same way towards you as you feel towards her.

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3 Common WRONG Responses to a Break-up

DepressedA break up with a girlfriend is one of the most painful experiences in a mans life. And I know what I am talking about because I have been there and so have million of men.

I would define it as a mixture of so many feelings: anger, sadness, depression, confusion, emptiness, loneliness and so much more, all at once.

Crazy thoughts go through a mans mind during this phase of the break up.

Many men tend to deal with these feelings differently, and in most cases incorrectly.

Response 1: Getting drunk and hooking up with a random girl

Although I have to admit this method will get your ex girlfriend and all the pain out of your head for a while you will feel terrible afterwords. Once you are sober you will feel sorry and disgusted by what you have done and you will feel even worse then before. This “method” only postpones everything and wont help you to feel better nor get your ex girlfriend back.

Response 2: Falling in depression and doing NOTHING

This is probably the most common reaction. After a break up men “lock” themselves at home and do NOTHING just suffer of the emotional pain. They try to forget their ex girlfriends instead of fighting to get them back. And when they finally decide to fight she has already moved on and found someone else.

Response 3:  “Bombarding” their ex girlfriends in panic

This is one of the 5 common mistakes described in THIS ARTICLE. After a break-up guys start “bombarding” their ex girlfriends with phone calls, emails, love cards, flowers, chocolates, teddy bears etc. Do not attempt this. Do not cut the contact with your ex girlfriend but keep is SENSIBLE! Otherwise you will annoy her and she might cut the contact with you completely.

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Dedication and Patience – The Key to Success

PatienceI always say dedication and patience are the two aspects which decide whether you will get your ex girlfriend back or not. The guys who don’t have the dedication and patience never get their girlfriends back.

What do I mean by dedication and patience?

Many guys believe that all it takes to get back their ex girlfriends is to call her, tell her a “magic formula” and their girlfriends will run back to them immediately. This is absolutely wrong….

Getting back an ex girlfriend is a complete process in which you will have to rebuild her trust in you from a scratch. It is definitely not easy and it takes a real man.

And now we get to the part where you find out whether you have the necessary dedication. Did this fact put you off? Are you not interested in getting your ex girlfriend back anymore? This fact usually puts off guys who don’t really love their ex girlfriends. Their ex girlfriends are simply not worth the “effort” to them. If this fact did NOT put you off and you are willing to fight for your ex girlfriend no matter what it takes this means you have the dedication. This is a crucial fact which dramatically increases your chances of success because girls can sense extremely well whether a guy truly cares for them.

Unfortunately dedication is not all you need. Getting back an ex girlfriend also takes a lot of patience. The process is not only difficult but it also takes a while. Could be few weeks or few months. For me it took 8 weeks to get my ex girlfriend back, (you can read my complete story here:  how I got my ex girlfriend back), but it was no brainer for me because I loved her ( and to this day still love her) dearly.

If none of this put you off I want to congratulate you. This means you have the dedication and patience to get back an ex girlfriend. This increases your chances of getting her back well above 80% (unless your relationship never worked as explained in When Can Relationship Be Revived)

5 Common Mistakes Guys Make When Getting Back an Ex Girlfriend

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Guys, avoid these common mistakes!

Here are the 5 most common mistakes guys make when getting back their ex girlfriends for you to avoid!

Mistake 1: “Bombarding” Your Ex Girlfriend

This is definitely the no.1 mistake almost all guys make when trying to get back their ex girlfriend. Of course I am not talking about throwing things at your ex girlfriend! By bombarding I mean, constantly seeking for contact with her by any means and in any form. E.g: calling her few times a day, texting her, emailing her, sending her flowers and gifts, inviting her out etc.

This is a huge mistake because this approach will soon annoy your ex girlfriend and cause her to completely cut the contact with you, making it a lot harder to get her back later.

Mistake 2: Acting depressed to make her come back to you out of pity

Another very common mistake. Guys often act depressed in front of their ex girlfriends hoping they will feel sorry for them and come back to them out of pity. Although this strategy might be “successful” in some cases guys often don’t realize the full consequences. By doing this you are basically forcing your ex girlfriend to come back to you. You are putting big psychological pressure at her, its a terrible feeling to look at someone suffering because of you. And even if she comes back to you out of pity she will be unhappy and your relationship will not work well.

Mistake 3: Hanging out with other women to make her feel jealous

A very popular technique which is believed to be successful is to hang out with other girls in front of your ex girlfriend to make her feel jealous. Just as mistake 2 this approach might work in SOME cases but it can have destructive effects in other cases. Yes, your ex girlfriend could either feel jealous and fight for you or she will feel hurt thinking it was easy for you to replace her and forget her. This could destroy your chances of ever getting her back!

Mistake 4: Being just “too nice”

You might think being nice to your ex girlfriend is a good thing. And it certainly is, i am not telling you to start acting like a complete jerk now! But there are limits to everything. You have to keep your manhood and pride too! Otherwise she might just manipulate you and use you.

Mistake 5: Telling her it was all your fault and you will change

Similar to mistake 4. Never say that you were the only reason why your relationship ended and that you are the only one that has to change! Relationship is about two people respecting each other and you are both responsible for the problems in your relationship. You will both have to change to make sure you don’t repeat the same mistakes as before.

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Do NOT Listen to the Others

not-listening3If you want truly get your ex girlfriend back, it is very important to learn what to and what not to do… I learned this myself when trying to get back my ex girlfriend.  After I broke up with my girlfriend I started asking my friends and even on the Internet for help. Many tried to discourage me by saying things like “Move on, you will find a better one” or “Just forget her, you will never get her back”. Others gave me silly tips (which I actually tried) such as “Send her flowers”, “Call her and tell her how sorry you are” etc.

After trying all these silly tips I felt that I pushed her even further away from me and she was becoming quite annoyed by me.  You can read the rest of my story about how I got my ex girlfriend back.

What I am trying to say is: Don’t listen to people who don’t really know what they are talking about.

In most cases other people will either discourage you by telling you to move on or they will give you cliche tips which don’t work and can even push your ex girlfriend even further away from you.

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