PatienceI always say dedication and patience are the two aspects which decide whether you will get your ex girlfriend back or not. The guys who don’t have the dedication and patience never get their girlfriends back.

What do I mean by dedication and patience?

Many guys believe that all it takes to get back their ex girlfriends is to call her, tell her a “magic formula” and their girlfriends will run back to them immediately. This is absolutely wrong….

Getting back an ex girlfriend is a complete process in which you will have to rebuild her trust in you from a scratch. It is definitely not easy and it takes a real man.

And now we get to the part where you find out whether you have the necessary dedication. Did this fact put you off? Are you not interested in getting your ex girlfriend back anymore? This fact usually puts off guys who don’t really love their ex girlfriends. Their ex girlfriends are simply not worth the “effort” to them. If this fact did NOT put you off and you are willing to fight for your ex girlfriend no matter what it takes this means you have the dedication. This is a crucial fact which dramatically increases your chances of success because girls can sense extremely well whether a guy truly cares for them.

Unfortunately dedication is not all you need. Getting back an ex girlfriend also takes a lot of patience. The process is not only difficult but it also takes a while. Could be few weeks or few months. For me it took 8 weeks to get my ex girlfriend back, (you can read my complete story here:  how I got my ex girlfriend back), but it was no brainer for me because I loved her ( and to this day still love her) dearly.

If none of this put you off I want to congratulate you. This means you have the dedication and patience to get back an ex girlfriend. This increases your chances of getting her back well above 80% (unless your relationship never worked as explained in When Can Relationship Be Revived)