Even if you have a solid relationship, boredom can kill and burn out the flame of love that you and wife or girlfriend share. The good news is, there are ways that you can save your relationship by preventing monotony and avoiding further conflicts.
Who knows? You could even ignite that feeling of excitement when the two of you first started dating. Here are some useful tips that you can use to keep the love alive.
Some relationships end because of failure to communicate one's needs. While most men are often squeamish about talking about themselves and their deepest darkest emotions, women expect us to be more open to communicate with them (whether we like it or not). If you think there's something wrong, don't wait until your patience runs out and you explode in front of her. Save your relationship and just tell her about the issue.
That way, you can talk things out with her and compromise on what you can do to solve an dilemma.
Is it your fault? Apologize to her!
We men are very egotistical; as much as possible, we never admit that we are wrong. However, if you are at fault in your recent spat, swallow your pride and own up. She'll appreciate that. Women admire men who are gutsy, and she will admire your courage to admit your mistake. And since we are not really that good with words and expressing our emotions, try expressing your sincerity with your actions to make it up to her.
Do something new together
One of the best ways to save your relationship is to try doing something new together with her. Has she been considering sky diving or bungee jumping? Join her. Does she want to go backpacking or scuba diving? Go with her! Doing and experiencing new things together while having fun can help save your relationship because it breaks the monotony. Do something new with her the next time you feel that your relationship has taken a routine or monotonous turn. So step out of your comfort zone and enjoy life to the fullest – right beside her.
Originally posted 2016-10-28 14:55:28.