Do you want to get your love back? Are you confused, anxious, or on the verge of a ‘break-down’? Then you’re pretty well normal. Almost anyone who has broken up would not be truthful if they said there were not some bad emotions involved.
Emotions are always a major part of any break up. If they’re not, then you need to check your pulse!
You also need to give yourself some time. Do not rush into anything until you have thought things through. How long did it take for your relationship to go bad? Take your time so you don’t repeat the same mistakes.
Give your love a break from you.
Time can be a healer of so many wounds. Emotions tend to ease out as the days progress, so don’t harass or plead to get back together. Eventually your ‘love’ will want to talk to you, and this is a good start.
Now with this being said, you do want to check in with your ex love now and then to assure yourself that they still have an ‘itch’ for you. If they are glad to see you, that is a good sign. If they are agitated, this is good as well. It means you still do something to them. It’s when they show no emotion one way or the other that you need to make a serious decision.
Is the relationship worth it to pursue? Have things gone too far – too wrong. Or do you see some glimmer of hope still there. If this is the case, then a relationship expert may be able to help you, as he has helped many thousands of people. He can certainly help you to save a broken relationship.
One of the most powerful things you can say is “I’m Sorry” and mean it. If you really want things fixed between you, then you will have your work cut out for you. It is not impossible, but tread lightly and don’t react to things that may be said.
And don’t forget, a gift might be needed along with “I’m Sorry”. This adds something more genuine to your apology. Music is a great choice. Sending some flowers ahead of time is a great choice as well.
Another powerful thing to say is “I love you”, and mean this as well. This shows that you have genuine feelings for them and you are willing to work things out.
Pay attention to all they have to say. If there are angry or hurtful words, you need to realize that your ex love needs to be able to vent. They may have been holding things in for a while and now is the time to speak or yell. Don’t take what is said to heart. Remember, once a volcano blows, it simmers down. So it is with people.
To get your love back, put all of these steps into practice. As well, don’t forget that a well-chosen gift can work miracles as well. But make sure it is something tangible, something that they can keep. This will remind them of you and hopefully soften the heart once again.
Originally posted 2016-11-17 14:26:10.