Why Getting Your Girlfriend Back Using The “NO CONTACT” Method Is So Powerful…
If you’ve never heard of the ‘no contact’ method it’s basically when you cut off all contact when getting your girlfriend back after the break up which sounds completely backwards but it actually works almost too well. Let’s start off with a few reasons why…
First off, she won’t see you in your lowest of moments. Let’s not kid each other, breaking up is emotionally straining and will cause any once sane man to do things he wouldn’t normally do. After all love does strange things to you so don’t feel bad. BUT…you must keep in mind that the time right after a break up is one of the most sensitive times for both parties involved and any wrong move can blemish any chances at getting your girlfriend back.
If you leave your girl with the image that you’re depressed, and desperate, it will be extremely difficult to get that tarnished image of you out of her head. That means more work than is necessary on your part. You’re best off by just practicing ‘no contact’, gathering your wits, and then trying to get your girlfriend back once your head is on straight.
You Ex Girlfriend is left with herself and her imagination. If you broke up with a girl wouldn’t you expect her to at least call you once in a while to see how you’re doing? If she didn’t wouldn’t you wonder if she even cared or what she’s doing that is so much better than you? Or even better, wouldn’t that tempt you to want to call her rather than her call you?
Yes it would I think, and that’s going to be exactly how she’ll be feeling if you cut off all contact with her through the ‘no contact’ method. Eventually she’ll reach a point where she may not be able to take it anymore and she’ll end up contacting you first. Then when she does finally contact you first, you can cut the conversation short and tell her you’ll call back later or something (which you won’t do). That’s about the time she’ll be on the ceiling full of confusion and rejection thinking what a mistake she made to let you go.
You never realize what you have until its gone. Well now that you’re broken up, you have let her feel what its like to not have you around anymore. If you’re in constant contact after the break up she won’t feel the sting of loneliness and she won’t have any reason to consider getting back together with you. When getting your girlfriend back, you want to send the message that being together is happiness and being broken up is pain.
Even though you most likely broke up because the relationship got to the point of pain, all she is going to remember during ‘no contact’ are the cuddle moments, or going to the movies, or having someone to talk to all the time. She’ll start to appreciate the little things when the little things are no longer there. And it’s always the little things in life that get you.
So now your familiar with the ‘no contact’ rule and why it can be one of the most powerful tools to help you in getting your girlfriend back. HOWEVER, this only the beginning…
Originally posted 2016-10-28 14:00:30.