How To Know Whether To Get Back With Your Ex Or Not
Did you break up with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, and now have an emotional desire to get back together with them, but are still somewhat unsure if you should actually do it, or simply move on from your failed relationship?
Is Your Ex Way Too Possessive
If your ex still goes on a jealous rampage whenever he sees you out on a date with another person, then that might be an indication that maybe you should not get back together with your ex. This kind of behavior implies that your ex is not able to give you the distance and time off from your relationship that you need. If your ex is not able to at least accept the fact that you are in fact broken up, then by getting back together with him or her, you could run into some problems later on. Remember, a jealous ex probably won’t be a more understanding boyfriend or girlfriend after you get back together, in fact, it might just get worse.
Lack Of Communication
Before you can hope to successfully fix your relationship with your ex, a substantial amount of talking between you is needed, because without it, the process of getting back together will leave a lot of things just hanging out there. Communicating with one another means that the both of you will have the opportunity to talk about all the things that you need to discuss in order to help arrive at a resolution for your break up, whether that means getting back together, or simply calling it quits and moving on.
You Don’t Really Know Why You Want Get Back Together
If you don’t have any concrete reason as to why you want to get back together with your ex, then you probably shouldn’t. Don’t get back together with your ex simply because you feel sorry for him, or just because you feel lonely, or you don’t know what else to do. You need to have a good reason or reasons why you want to get back together. Keep in mind that this entire situation involves not just your own feelings, but it also involves your ex’s feelings as well, so you need to exercise care and discretion so as not to lead your ex partner towards something you are not serious about. When you know you really have a good reason to want to get back together, that is the time to move in that direction.
If Your Ex Has Moved On, So Should You
If your ex has already made peace with your break up, and has already started dating other people, and maybe even is already in a steady, serious relationship, then you probably should think about moving on from your relationship as well. It is never a good idea to go after your ex if it means breaking up their relationship with someone else. You had your opportunity, and now that your relationship has ended, your chance has already passed. Allow your ex to find happiness with another person, as much as it hurts now, and do the same yourself as well.
These are the things you should think about in deciding whether to get back together with your ex or not.
Originally posted 2016-12-17 07:27:33.