Let’s face it; relationships can be downright hard and confusing at times. One minute you can feel that you’re luckiest guy in the universe and then next, you’re quarreling over the most insignificant things, pulling your hair out. Then before you even could see if coming, she decides to leave.
It all seemed to of happened so fast, what changed? What went wrong? If you’ve been heart-broken, dumped or if she decided she just didn’t want to try any longer and you’re not willing to accept that this is how it’s going to end, then this article will help you turn your situation around.
Girls, they can be the most puzzling creatures on earth. They say one thing BUT they really mean another. You might not understand them but here are a few tips to help you tap into their minds. The most important is start paying attention to details! Pay closer attention to her body language, the way she says things and the deeper meaning behind WHY and WHAT she says. You can start cluing in on a lot of things if you’re more receptive to her needs.
If you’ve tried everything to get her back, including emailing, texting or calling them trying to explain your situation, then stop right now. It might not only be ineffective but it might be detrimental. This type of behavior is something they expect of you already. What girls want is to be surprised and challenged. Send them a romantic gift or a note, something sweet enough to make her heart melt, but not too over the top.
If you’re past the point of wooing her back with romance, it’s a clear indication that your contact with her is too soon. What she needs is space and a bit more time, enough for her to cool down and find her head in this whole mess. This is valuable time for you as well. Try to keep active, go out for a run, go to the gym or connect with friends you haven’t seen in a while. Just relax and be patient.
If you’re still uncertain about why she left you in the first place, take this time to ponder this. Occasionally you won’t be able to get a straight answer, no matter how many times you ask. In this case, you need to recall what attracted her to you in the first place. Was it your sense of humor? Your charm? Whatever it might have been, you need to bring them out again and be that person but not in a way that might make her suspicious.
See if she’s up for a casual outing or coffee and don’t forget to keep the date casual and laid-back. If she’s uneasy about meeting you, the more you need to pledge to her that you don’t any hidden motives.
SLOWLY gaining her trust is important. Don’t expect this to happen overnight. Stick to it and it will work for you if you want to win her back!
Originally posted 2017-03-17 13:24:12.