4 Sure Shot Ways To RUIN Any Chance You Have At Winning Your Ex Girlfriend Back
Trying to win back your ex girlfriend can be an extremely trying time especially if you have no idea what you are doing. Let me tell you straight up…
Everything you feel you should be doing is most likely all wrong. You see, all those feelings inside are telling you to put your pride aside and lay it all on the line, but doing that will almost always do nothing to help you and everything to ruin your chance to win back your ex girlfriend.
You can pretty much assume relying on your feelings for anything is a BIG MISTAKE since our feelings are easily influenced by so many factors. To be sure you don’t end up one of without her, I came up with a list of the top 4 things you must avoid when trying to win back your ex girlfriend.
Avoid them at all costs:
-Trying to convince your ex girlfriend the break up was a mistake
This isn’t a debate class; you’re not going to persuade her she messed up by letting you go because in her mind you’re wrong and she’s right. Since women are primarily emotional, trying to reason with your ex girlfriend is just about always a waste of time and only makes the situation worse.
-Taking all the blame to win back your ex girlfriend
Yes, there may have been some things you did wrong that resulted in the break up but chances are she had something to do with it too.
Women want to be in a relationship with a real guy, not a punching bag. So when you apologize for something that wasn’t just your fault, she’ll see that you’re only apologizing for the sake of getting back together. No one likes to be manipulated, so don’t take all the blame for the sake of the relationship.
-Blaming, guilt-tripping & acting innocent
First off, since when has playing the blame game ever made anything better…SERIOUSLY. Making her out to be the bad guy, and pointing your finger will only drive her further away so don’t do it.
Secondly, a relationship is a 2 way street, so unless she straight up cheated on you, it’s partly your fault too. Nobody’s perfect, and I don’t know about you but there’s nothing more repulsive than someone who never thinks they’re wrong.
This has to be the biggest mistake of all time. You may be feeling that begging is your only option, but like I mentioned earlier, your feelings will get you in the most trouble when trying to win back your ex girlfriend.
Think of it this way: everybody wants what they can’t have!
If you’re throwing yourself at her at every moment, she is going to get sick and tired of seeing your face and hearing your voice. Just be safe and never, ever resort to begging no matter how crappy you’re feeling.
Remember these 4 mistakes and stop yourself from making them like your relationship depended on it; which it does!
Originally posted 2016-10-28 14:03:37.